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11/13/15 03:14 PM #102    

Russell Flammia

  Hi Jackie &Buddy, 

                            One of the T.V. stations (Channel 12?) did a report on Michael Folland a couple of years ago.  There is a website for all Medal of Honor recepients so people can read about these heros.  

     Jimmie Monteith, T.J. '38 also received the Medal of Honor for his actions on D-Day, June 6, 1944. It's bitter sweet that a high school has two Medal of Honor recipients, but as we know, 

                        America is the home of the free, because of the brave.    


11/13/15 05:28 PM #103    

 

Earl E. (Buddy) Cousins

Hey Russell! Thanks for the update on Michael Folland. Yes, TWO Medal of Honor recipients from the same h.s. is unique.


11/13/15 06:00 PM #104    

 

Earl E. (Buddy) Cousins

This is sorta Richmond stuff. I was in a small veterans group and three of our members spent a combined 21 years as POW's in North Vietnam. One of the three is Lt. Col. Fred Cherry. He graduated from VUU. He spent 7 yrs in a POW camp. He had both shoulders broken/separated when he rejected an offer, by the North Vietnamese, to be set free to come home; if he would speak out against the war. One of the other three, helped reset his shoulders in place, in a very prmitive manner, and one that might upset some, so I'll save it. When Col. Cherry arrived home guess what he found? His wife had cut and run and taken over $121K of his back pay, leaving him with nothing to show for all he'd been through. Col. Cherry is one hellava fine man and worthy of admiration and respect from ALL. 

Me? Ha. I got a combined "Dear John" and wedding invite after I'd been gone about 2 mos. It upset some of the guys around "The Park" far more so than it did me. I actually had far more important things on my mind at the time. I NEVER understood how some guys got all broken up over getting dumped. One of the guys in my first squad was crying and going nuts when he got his, and I said, "Is that the ONLY damn girl you've ever been with (or something that meant the same)? If so, I'M sorry as hell for you, but come tomor, your butt had better be ready to rock n roll!"

This concludes Buddy's War Stories for the day. Maybe I'll lighten it up a bit and talk about Bangkok and the night I ran into Tommy Brooke and I was with these two young ladies. Naw. Tommy tells it much better... OK. He doesn't tell the "complete details" but just about the encounter.


11/13/15 06:39 PM #105    

 

Earl E. (Buddy) Cousins

HEY! Almost forgot. If anyone likes Doo Wop or a cool old love song... check my profile. I'm heading there to post "You" by the Aquatones. Got to run... football playoff game in 50 mins. Later dudes!
 


11/13/15 10:04 PM #106    

Russell Flammia

       Hi all, Buddy was speaking about Doo Woo and I just wanted to let everyone know that the Escorts will be playing at Enzio's Sat. night beginning at 8:00.  Enzio's is a couple of miles west of Short Pump and the admission is only $3.00 per person.  Jackie & I are bringing our dancin' shoes, come join us in the fun.--Russell


11/14/15 09:56 AM #107    

 

Earl E. (Buddy) Cousins

Prayers to all of the INNOCENT VICTIMS and THEIR FAMILIES of the horrific attacks last night in Paris. May retribution and revenge be swift and without mercy on those behind the attacks.


11/18/15 03:42 PM #108    

 

Earl E. (Buddy) Cousins

Hey Gang. A lot of you already know this weekend (22nd) marks the anniversary of JFK’s assassination. I’m sure you know where you were when Mr. Brock made the announcement over the PA, unless you were skipping classes. None of you ever did that, now, did you? Me? A number of times and the most fun was with these two girls, and I’ll stop right there. So, what were you doing and what were your thoughts when you heard the news?

Me? I was in the library trying to read a Hot Rod mag and this young lady was sitting at a table across from me, and well… she noticed I was “peeking” up her skirt, and smiled. I must have dropped that Hot Rod mag too many times, because the librarian finally came over and asked if I was alright. OMG… YEAH! LOL.

Note: I was seeing a girl at that time, but the one in the above was NOT her. I didn't want anyone to get a wrong impression. I best leave it right there. Now if Bookman is reading this, it would be time to cue-up Otis Redding's "I've got dreams to remember". Rock on and have a GREAT wk'end.


11/23/15 01:11 PM #109    

 

Christopher (Chris) Martin

 

Ever since I discovered this site (thanks Sally!) I have been thinking that I wanted to make a post to the class.  I want to thank the parents of the Jewish kids for locating into that school district so that I had the opportunity, even the inspiration, of attending TJ with Jewish kids.  Like most Gentile Southerners, I grew up with prejudice against the Jewish people.  Most of that was thanks to my father, who was prejudiced against EVERYBODY, even fellow Protestants; I remember he was vehemently opposed to my sister (Class of 1960) dating (and later marrying) the son of Hi Willette, Richmond School Superintendent, because they were heathen Baptists!  While attending TJ, I discovered that Jewish kids were, in general, superior to many of the Protestant kids; their academics set the standard and many of the girls were just plain beautiful!  I not only lost my prejudice but I became an avid supporter of Israel and of the Jewish people, eventually knowing more about their history than many of them.  I was a poor student at TJ, barely graduating, but because of the standards set by the Jewish kids, the teachers pushed all of us pretty hard.  Thus, my College Boards of 1320 were nothing special in TJ but would be considered genius today, especially in the remarkably poor California school system. (But I did get a perfect score on my Graduate Records, so I was still pressing 5 years after TJ.)  Long story, I apologize, but we are all getting to the age that we're dying off, and I wanted to get this said. Thank you Jewish classmates!


11/23/15 03:32 PM #110    

 

Freddie Hartman (Crouch)

Chris, I also was a Gentile Southerner from Binford, but never had any prejudices against Jewish people. I grew up in the time of civil rights and my father was opinionated about that. I never had any problems with either. I played basketball and softball at T.J. and had a wonderful time. The only thing I couldn't do was "shop" at Montaldos (but I managed to get Weejuns from there, ha). I was ask several times to go on shopping excursions to New York, etc., but of course, never could. I was just never in the "click." The only memory that hurt me was when they chose the best ballplayer at the end of the year and I was so sure I was getting it but didn't, since I was on the all state championship ball team. Broke my heart! (Joan Hume got it, who was a wonderful person.) Anyway, to follow up from you, I didn't make it to college but got married and had 2 beautiful daughters. But I do thank the teachers and the whole school for teaching me so much! Especially compared to today's school ratings. They all were smart, and respectful students with high morals and I have tried to live that throughout my life.

Another thing I would like to say. I was in the Orchestra when John Kennedy was shot (4th period, 11th grade. When it came over the loud speaker, I made a remark regarding Kennedy's shooting because I liked Nixon (stupid as kids go.) Melvin Solomon was sitting in front of me playing the Oboe. He turned around to me and said, "you should be ashamed of yourself." I can still see him as plain as if it were yesterday. As I have watched the his assassination on t.v., what a sad time in history.  I have remembered that throughout my life. He was right and I have always thought about it. I wanted to tell him that one day but I've never had the chance. If you know him, please pass it on. Hope everything in your life has been wonderful!

 


11/23/15 05:56 PM #111    

 

Donald Meyers

Hi Chris, Well I must admit, a most surprising post! I'm happy you found the platform where you could finally ''let it out''!
I personally don't remember ever having experienced any direct prejudice. Maybe there was some behind the scenes, but I never felt it. I mainly ran around with a Jewish crowd. Once at Westhampton Jr High I was together with a non-Jewish classmate, we were pretty friendly. Something happened and he shouted out a ''racial slur'' to this other Jewish guy. He immediately turned to me and said - ''I don't mean you, Donnie! '' I remember the incident, but don't remember being particularly offended. I knew that stuff was around. I knew there was a difference. My closest and most secure relationships was always with other Jews, especially in High School. That's the social environment I was brought-up.

11/23/15 06:19 PM #112    

 

Donald Meyers

Freddie, I remember my Mother shopping at ''Montaldo's'' Was that a ''Jewish''thing? I never knew that perspective. Sometimes she would take me downtown with her to Montaldos. I would sit around while she tried on dresses. WHAT A DRAG!! Also trips to NY with my sister to buy clothes. A special store, which I forget the name right now - O yea,''LOWMANS''. On those trips she didn't take me!

11/24/15 12:01 PM #113    

Michele (Shelly) Penn (Piken)

Unlike Donnie, I did have someone say to me that I could not play tennis at the Country Club because I was Jewish. A few other nasty remarks were made to me. But I always felt those people were too ignorant to know better. I also encountered a lot of racism because our housekeeper was black. I of course, didn't really understand until I was older. I could not sit in the back of the bus with her. She could not take me to the restroom since I had to use the 'White Only' one. And most of all, in 1966 I was an intern at Norfolk General Hospital and was not allowed to touch, on the hand or arm, my boss. He was a wonderful black man. I did go back to Norfolk General Hospital about 10 years ago and found him and hugged him. Richmond was a wonderful place to grow up but some people had small minds!


11/24/15 01:07 PM #114    

 

Earl E. (Buddy) Cousins

My gosh. Looks like a modern day “True Confessions” on here. Makes some of my post look pretty damn cool. LOL. No confessions here baby! Just want to wish everyone regardless of their race, religion or political preference A HAPPY THANKSGIVING. OK. Not so fast commies, socialist and your kind. LOL


12/04/15 08:53 AM #115    

 

Earl E. (Buddy) Cousins

Knowing some of you will be attending Christmas Parties soon here's something you might think about. It someone YOU DON'T LIKE is boasting and running their mouth about stuff and you've always wanted to "call them out" - try this. Ask them to "prove it" by snorting a shot of Tequila. YEAH. No kidding. I did it once and ONCE ONLY as part of an initiation and between the tears, choking and barf that followed I didn't care if I was in or out! I don't recommend this for girls. I have seen one FEMALE do it, (I'm sure there have been others) but this FEMALE was tough enough to handle it.

I'm posting one of my fav Christmas songs on my profile. It's by Canned Heat and Dr. John. Yeah Bookman. NO WANT hear. From my "Psychedelic Period".

I SINCERELY hope none of you DRINK and DRIVE! That's one dumb butt thing we can all prevent. Besides, I've done enough other dumb stuff. I think I exceeded my "dumb butt limit" LONG AGO.

Be Cool and PEACE TO ALL!


12/05/15 09:29 AM #116    

 

Earl E. (Buddy) Cousins

Happy Birthday to The Prince of Rock n Roll... Little Richard! Yeah. If Elvis is The King; Little Richard is The Prince of Rock n Roll. What say you Mel Bookman? Posted Lucille on my bio... love the sax, that's sax not sex, haha, part. I saw a REAL "head doc" today saying that the suspect that's snealing females jogging shows and then returning them with a surprise inside is "Normal". WTH is that? Have we gone that far downhill? I recall a couple of girls, at TJ that I would have OMG... best stop here, cause my heart rate is a jumping at the thought, and I might get into trouble. I thought I was just being "Kinky"... not a freakin weird-o, pervert. Wait. Maybe I was that. OMG... Rock on people. Lighten up out there. 

 


12/14/15 07:27 AM #117    

 

Freddie Hartman (Crouch)

Maxine, thanks so much for coming to Gene's memorial. It was great to see you again! Hope you have a wonderful holiday!


12/14/15 07:30 AM #118    

 

Freddie Hartman (Crouch)

Thanks so much for all the condolences in the recent death of my husband, Eugene Crouch. It has been a very rough time, but we are getting through it. Hope everyone has a very happy holiday!


12/23/15 08:39 AM #119    

 

Earl E. (Buddy) Cousins

Here's wishing EVERYONE a Very Merry Christmas! Don't do anything dumb or stupid and PLEASE DON'T DRINK and DRIVE! Hopefully, you will NEVER know the sorrow of losing someone to a drunk driver. Regardless of the PR... you don't get over it or forgive the person responsible! Posting a couple of my "Redneck"* Christmas songs on my profile...

*For Bookman. LOL

Funny how when I get started... Anyway. I'm posting a P.J. Proby (Redneck Spl.) AKA Jett Powers, James Marcus Smith, Jimmy Proby (didn't have to Goggle em) for Mel Bookman as a Christmas gift.


01/06/16 10:45 AM #120    

 

Earl E. (Buddy) Cousins

Hope everyone had a GREAT holiday season! Someone is trying to get as many TJ people together from the classes of 62-66 that served in Vietnam. It will be in March. Nothing formal. Telling stories, eating (might have to buy your own) and having some fun. If you're interested and/or know someone that might be, let me know. Pass the word if you would and lets get er rolling.


01/11/16 02:55 PM #121    

 

Earl E. (Buddy) Cousins

Deeply sadden by the news of David Bowie's passing. WHAT A FANTASTIC TALENT! Got to see him during his "Ziggy Period" and WHAT A SHOW! RIP my man and thanks for some great memories. I think it was during my "Ziggy Period" that I met my wife, or was that during her "Ziggy Period"? Hell... someone was having a period that's all I know.


01/26/16 12:21 PM #122    

 

Earl E. (Buddy) Cousins

Sorry to hear of Glenn Frey's passing. Never a big Eagles fan, but they put out some great stuff. Hope everyone did OK w/the snow. Lots of books to read and CD's to burn and along with shoveling... kept me busy. Everyone be cool and be careful out there. The snow seems to increase the "Idiot Factor" by at least 50%.


01/29/16 02:33 PM #123    

 

Thomas Jefferson Grizzard

I just thought some of you might be interested in the work one of my colleagues at Virginia Tech has been doing to help the community of Flint, Michigan deal with the crisis of lead in their drinking water. Prof. Marc Edwards and his students, both undergraduate and graduate, have been working tirelessly to hold politicians and regulators accountable for the needless exposure to this potent neurotoxin. There was a seminar streamed to the Web last night, and it makes for riveting viewing. If you're retired, and have time on your hands, give it a look!

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=AVHE5ny0MBg 

 


01/31/16 01:03 PM #124    

Wayne Satterwhite

Tommy, thanks for your post on the Flint, Michigan situation. I shall watch it.

 

Sorry you could not get to the reunion in 2014. You and I go back to John B. Cary elementary school. That' s long time ago, which includes boxing in my parents backyard, and our ill-fated Astrology club we, Tommy Barton, and perhaps others, started. Would have been great for me to have seen you.

 

Wayne Satterwhite


02/01/16 10:59 AM #125    

Betty Johnson (Bowers))

Hey Tommy and Wayne - I also go back to those Cary days! And I kind of remember that Astronomy Club!  Hope all is well with you two.  I couldn't make it back to the reunion. I am living in South Carolina (Myrtle Beach) now but  I do make it back to Richmond a few times a year as my daughter lives in Mechanicsville.  My husband and I retired here in 99.  He passed away a little over 5 years ago, but I still enjoy the warmer weather and the no snow, so I have stayed.  I do miss the opportunity to see old friends and enjoy those good memories.  Would love to keep in touch.


02/01/16 11:00 AM #126    

Betty Johnson (Bowers))

oops!  I meant Astrology club!


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